Posted on by

BBBS RI: Natural Mentors Pack Powerful Influence

[CREDIT: Rhonda Lapham] From left, Lapham's mother, who was one of her natural mentors and Lapham herself.
[CREDIT: Rhonda Lapham] From left, Lapham's mother, who was one of her natural mentors and Lapham herself.
[CREDIT: Rhonda Lapham] From left, Lapham’s mother, who was one of her natural mentors and Lapham herself.

 RHONDA LAPHAM

Market President, iHeartMedia Providence & Board Member, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Rhode Island

May is a time of change and growth. Students are wrapping up the school year, families are adjusting to new routines, and many of us are looking ahead to summer.

It’s also Mental Health Awareness Month, which reminds us of the importance of connection and belonging in a young person’s life, at natural mentors

As a Board Member at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Rhode Island (BBBSRI), and someone who has benefited deeply from mentorship, I know how powerful these relationships can be.

Some of the most influential people in my life weren’t assigned mentors—they were natural mentors: teachers, coaches, neighbors, and colleagues who naturally stepped into that role. I learned so much from these individuals—traits and skills that have made me the person that I am today.  I learned leadership, empathy, compassion, and the desire to help make a difference. They helped shape my values, guided me through tough times, and celebrated my growth. These “natural mentors” are all around us, and often, they don’t realize the impact they’re having.

At BBBSRI, they work to support and strengthen these natural mentorships. They know that young people thrive when they feel seen, supported, and connected—and that’s exactly what mentoring does. In fact, 100% of Mentees in BBBSRI programs advanced to the next grade last year. Parents also reported major improvements in mental health (91%), increased self-confidence (86%), and avoidance of the juvenile justice system (97%). And every single Mentor said they were positively impacted by the experience.

We also know from national data that mentored youth are 20% more likely to attend college than their non-mentored peers. These relationships matter.

If you or your child are in a natural mentoring situation—maybe there’s a coach, family friend, or neighbor already playing that role—I encourage you to consider enrolling formally with BBBSRI. Their programs enhance and support those existing relationships by providing professional case management, access to free or low-cost activities, and opportunities for scholarships, financial assistance, workforce development, and more.  Mentorship doesn’t have to start from scratch—but with the right support, it can go even further. Let’s help our youth succeed—together. 

Interested in nominating someone for the BBBSRI AWARD FOR NATURAL MENTORING? This award recognizes individuals who inspire, guide, and empower others through natural, organic mentorship. The honoree does not need to hold a formal mentoring title but should demonstrate exceptional dedication to fostering growth and development in others through meaningful, authentic relationships.  We’re excited to present The BBBSRI Award for Natural Mentoring at this year’s Big Breakfast on Oct. 23 at Kirkbrae Country Club. 

Consider nominating a mentor here: https://form.jotform.com/250405302654043.  Nominations due by May 16th.  If you’d like more info about BBBSRI visit BigsRI.org.

Rob Borkowski
Author: Rob Borkowski

Rob has worked as reporter and editor for several publications, including The Kent County Daily Times and Coventry Courier, before working for Gatehouse in MA then moving home with Patch Media. Now he's publisher and editor of WarwickPost.com. Contact him at editor@warwickpost.com with tips, press releases, advertising inquiries, and concerns.

This is a test